“ call me ??”
Just a little message , I have got from my sister id. I was little bit astonished to see this . Because always she calls me . But I called her number.
“ Owalikumsalam “
“ I did not give salam yet”
“ I know , you will definitely “
“ ok , Assalamualaikum “
Actually my younger brother picked that call . My cutie brother has this habit to say “Owalaikumsalam “ firstly though he just does it only with me .
Sister and brother relationship is the most adorable relation which is heavenly bonded . I have two younger brothers . One is a honors first year student and other one is HSC examinee . Alhamdulilah , I am very much blessed for having such brothers. But my two brothers characteristic are not same . One is full of shyness and others have open mouth. My elder younger brother is very much emotional. Even when I talk with him , I need to careful about my words . Otherwise if he thinks , I show him little bit business or negligence, then the remaining month , his phone will be switched off . Being emotional , she has tight lipped too . He doesn’t wants to share easily . But I know his weak point that is me . I don’t know why he does obey my words rather than my parents or others family member. For knowing his any reason , I need to pretend upset as if I am leaving everything because of his tension . But he is the only one person who cut phone on my face . I am so irritating on his this behavior . He is much talented but doesn’t like to read more . He is trying to obey Islamic rules very much from his heart . May Allah bless you dear brother.
The most younger brother is little bit naughty. Actually he is acted as my secret reporter of my family . I always get any news of my family from him . Basically he is the person , who looks down me most . I know , he loves me more but he loves to fun with me . While he sees my any picture , his comments will be funny too like “ I am feeling vomiting or there is no difference between you and monkey “ . While I admitted in BSc as communication engineering , he used to call me “ hey maker , come , fix this one ?” . Actually I cannot think anything to talk with him , though he is a super funny boy . He wants to be marine officer or he has a plan to read marine or navy related subject . Though my mother wants him to be a doctor . Because he is very much organized in his studies. You can think , A second year student who can leave his home just day after eid for taking preparation of his collage exam , then how much he is serious in his studies .
Though my two brothers has different characteristic , but their concern about us (my and my sister ) are same . They are very much protective about us . Though my elder brother shows cold response but he is more serious about us . Something like this , when I go my home and want to visit my village field with mu cousins , that time , my brother will first cheek the whole road if there any male people here or not . If there are someone presenting , he will make some reason to stop us like “ apu , mom is calling you or Baba is searching something “ or he will start to cry . The younger most is very cleaver who tries to fined out any evidence from my activities or my phones . Yesterday , I just surprised to her that he cheeked my conversation in one of Search English posts and told me that he got my friendly nature for some person .
I realized that brothers concerns are away same to their sister where it doesn’t matter that they are elder or youngers . May Allah bless you all brothers and sisters . Always be with us like this . I am missing my brothers because I did not go home many days . Exactly I cannot remember that how many days ago , I went home . Few days ago , unconsciously I just spoken out “ I am missing home “ and my friend surprised to hear it . Because hardly I have said such emotional words because I am not used to such emotional words. Sothat I have just sat for recalling their memories as well as completed my today’s post. Hope you are well by the grace of Almighty Allah .
Do you like to play game ? . How it will be enjoyable if we can play with words! Actually we are gamer who always play with words. I am talking about our communication way. There are different ways of communication such as verbal , non-verbal , written or visualization . When we speak with other person face to face or television or other media , this is called spoken or verbal communication . And non-verbal communication is conducted by our body language , eye contract or gesture. And I am always using written communication to you . Representing a chart or graph for providing information is visual communication.
Well , I am not here to deliver a lecture on Communications but my topic will be little bit similar . As I am saying that we always play with words. Sometimes you will notice that we are people talking on same concept but the way of choosing words are not same. Sometimes one person words seem so sweet but others one is hard . Because of only one or two words , the whole meaning of your sentence becomes changed .So we should concern about our words . But some people like me who are talking more , they face this kind of problem . Actually they have not such intention to talk but that bad habit bounds to present such words . Sometimes it hurts people so much .
Do you think, verbal communication is better to hurt someone than non-verbal communication ? Sometimes we have experience such situation where two parties try to win by their words. But wise person are not select this way. They become so calm and quite but they will make sure to you their angriness by their silence. Yes, I think, Taking a revenge by non-verbal way is more killer way which I hate very much. Because I cannot understand the other person move that everything is right or not. We are human being but not angle . We should solve any matter by discussing .
Oh no … I should stop this topic here . Because it is going against of mine . Actually I am behave like a monster to my closer one . I did not realize that what I was writing . Suddenly I realized that my thinking and my behavior are not matching. I am feeling so pity one myself by saying “ Zannat , it is easy to say but difficult to do “. Seriously I am not angry with that person but I do not why I am acting as super cool girl .
Do you know , I am smiling at this moment . Because I am thinking that really it is easy to represent as good person to others people who do not know you personally. I could change my writing direction very easily .
Now I cannot get any words to continue my writing . Because a cold thought takes a place of my mind which becomes an obstacle to return my past one . In Sha Allah , I know I will be back soon but it will take some time to melt that ice . Pray for me so that I gain some qualities of becoming human .
May Allah bless you .
Allah hafez.
[When I start to write , I just write whatever come to my mind . So that sometime , the starting and ending concept are not matched each other . sorry for another confusing post]