Simple things yet so Complex

For most of us, life is full of obstacles and challenges. We have to deal with many problems. Just think of the life of an average person. Many of us find it very difficult to maintain satisfactory grades in our educational life. Even before that, we feel that studying is boring and try to jump to every opportunity to take a break from it. We also find it difficult to do our jobs properly. We have to struggle all our life to maintain normal health. Studying properly, working 9-5 to earn some money and maintaining normal health should not be that tough but most of us struggle.

I am not talking about getting straight A in every course, I am not talking about earning million dollar a month or I am not talking about having zero figure or becoming a world class body builder. I am talking about normal life with mediocre achievements. Why many of us fail to achieve that? Perhaps the main reason is that we are obsessed with greed. We are greedy for everything in life. We want to be perfect in many things. Thus, we lose the normal balance in life.

We also start to love and crave for the wrong things. We love to have top grades but we should love to read and write. We love money but we should love to work with passion. We love to eat tasty food and then we look for artificial ways to make us more beautiful and attractive. Instead, we should try to change our eating habit and focus on exercising.

Many of us have surely forgotten the simple lessons of life. We have lost simplicity and that is why, life can become very complicated. I may appear to be too naïve here and you may argue that real life is full of challenges and obstacles. You are right, may I am getting too much carried away here. However, I am right too. If you can master the skill of loving to study then you are bound to become a good student whether you can have top grades or not. If you love your work then you will surely have a decent income no matter what you do.

Modern life is full of distractions. Mobile phones, Internet, Facebook, television- these things are nice for communication and entertainment. At the same time, these things can distract you a lot. When we lose our focus then not only a lot of time gets wasted from our daily life also we become addicted to procrastination. I read a lot of content online but I hardly read a book these days. In other words, I have lost the habit of reading something larger than 3000 words.  This is sad because I have been always an avid reader. I read a lot more than past but not reading books is not a good thing.

When life becomes complicated then you lose the ability to do very simple tasks. Then you lose the ability to work properly and you cannot move forward in life. At one stage, you start to worry about all the problems in life. Small problems become very big inside your head and you lose the ability to deal with them. Gradually, you become weak mentally and you start to lose your productivity. So, you will start to fail in almost anything you try. Even, you start feeling that trying is useless as only failure is ahead of you.

Failure is not bad if you can learn from it. But consistent failure will destroy your confidence as well will create fear in you. At one stage, you will lose the urge in your mind to seriously try for something. Even you will not want to go to doctor if you become sick. Instead you will feel that the doctor cannot help you or you will not be able to follow the advice.

I am sure that many of you reading this post can relate to your life with what I have written so far. It happens to many of us. We lose our way in life at a very young age and then we lose our confidence. If you can relate your current condition to this post then do not fear. Try to come out of it but even if you fail then do not fear. It may take one year to get back to normal life. It may even get 5 years to get back to life. No matter how many times you fail or how many years it takes, do not be afraid and do not lose your hope. Your confidence will get shattered and even you will fall into many problems. Yet, keep the hope alive.

It has taken only 30 minutes of my time to write until this part of the article. May be it will take just another 10 minutes of time to finish. When I started writing the article, I decided to forget everything else and just focus on writing it. I did not care whether it will be a good article or it will be read one thousand times. I just tried to write it and it is almost finished now. If I can do it every day then I will have an article to publish here. More than that, my skill, quality and speed will increase over time.

This simple lesson is true for any work- writing, doing business, selling, marketing or any profession. The more you do something on a regular basis the better you become. So, just try to get back to simple aspects of life. Try to focus on your work. More than everything do not lose hope.

Final words- it has taken only 35 minutes of time to write this article. Just focus on finding your own skill and try to improve it.

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  1. Yes vaia,we always should focus on our goal or work or dream. If we can follow to our goal,then we will be able to do everything to give our full energy and if it become possible then we must be success in our work. For doing everything, we just need a strict confidence to do our work properly. There have no big thing without confidence to do something properly. Sometimes, we see many students give exam though they have no hand. They write by their mouth,by their leg,by their knee and so on. If they did stop for not having hand,then did they can give their exam? No,they have confidence that they can write by their mouth and they was cling with their goal. That’s why they give their exam and pass also. So we should always focus on our goal to become success.

  2. Thanks a lot sir for writing so good article which made me speechless ..failure is no fact today i understood by reading ur this post..today’s exam was not so good..so i hesitated ..after reading this post ,all hesitation would be removed …i read it with 8 minute ..and understand clearly …i salute u sir ..please pray for me

  3. A mind blowing demonstrations of the reality of our day to day life behavior. Life is not a bed of roses . It is nothing but full of challenge & obstacles. Many of us fail to face this sort of problems. We have fear . It is natural. But, the point is that — my fear should not be stronger than my faith and my ability.

    Second point is that we need not to be super human being .what we are that’s fine .Average level is quite perfect not necessarily to be exceptional . Beacause by doing so we may lost our individuality & self belief .
    Further, we also need not to compete with others. By doing so we achieve nothing rather it is a kind of insult for yourself.
    Next , simplicity is another things which may make our life more precious.
    In addition to this, we are living in the age of ashtonishing advancement of science & technology. So , our attention has already diverted to electronic gadgets like whatap facebook and so on . Hardly we read book nowadays.
    Therefore, we shouldn’t forget that what pleasure we get from book that can not be comparable with anything. We can live as we want . If we want to make it complicated that is also up to us. So , choice is yours.

    Failure is the piller of success. We shouldn’t be afraid of failure.
    Finally; in order to achieve anything we can not but practice more and more. Eventually, this habit takes us to the wonderful world of perfection.

  4. You have described nicely about human life and the job. It is very important for focusing own job. You advised just focus our job and try to be skilled one. In shah Allah I must try to focus my job and doing regularly my job. By practicing regularly job maybe I will be a skilled one. Everybody knows that be skilled is not easy. It is so hard path. Pray for me dear sir so that I will make me like above artice and have to obey every rules and regulation.

  5. The article ‘Simple things yet so Complex’ Im reading when I’m depressed, frustrated, short tempered, sick, monotonous…..and so on…. After reading this article I have decided once again to write in any condition. Only continuous hard work can bring success.
    Word means that I have learnt from here
    Obsessed অন্ধকারাচ্ছন্ন
    Distractions ক্ষোভ
    Procrastination দীর্ঘসূত্রতা/ ঢিমেতেতালা
    Avid ক্ষুধিত
    Shattered টুটা

  6. It is good post for us confidence is very need our life. Confidence don’t develop without practice when you regular try day by day increase your confidence. Our life is short so we should properly use our time.

  7. Simple things yet sl complex from this article I have got more energy in my writing. From now I will write more and more although I am sick. depressed, distraction.Just determined too myself and always keep moving forward.

  8. You are really an adroit person vaiya. ..when I read some motivational speech like this of you I get some energy for doing better. ..
    Best wishes for you vaiya

  9. Thanks sir for posting an important matter.
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    Many times we lose hope. We can’t do our work in time due to failure. Because if we fail in any work then we lose our hope. For this reason we can’t do work our reaming work. We have to overcome from this situation. So, I think its an important post for all of us.if we can overcome from this matter then we could do well in any works..
    We have to understand that “Failure is the pillar of success “. If we believe this proverbs then we can do well in next work. We have to learn from failure. If we can learn then success will come in our hands that’s no doubt.
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    Again thanks sir for valuable post.I will try to follow this rules.

  10. Confidence make us strong to go ahead towards our goal.
    We have to stick on our dream.
    A passionate dreamer can achieve his/her dream.
    Simplicity makes human life easy.
    Now a days we are become very greedy.
    We wants everything at any cost.
    Make over can make us beautiful but it can’t make our mind pure & honest.
    If we want to achieve anything honestly we have to stick on it & have to invest our highest levels efforts.
    I think we should noticed our strong point.
    when we can discover our talent we should become efficient on it.
    Very nice explanation vaia.
    I enjoyed it most.

  11. confidence is more important things to gain something. but one things happen in our life is that if we have failed in the exam or attaining goal than we lost our hope as well as our confidence that’s why we couldn’t reach our destination. so , confidence more crucial matter to build up our adept in some selected subjects and improving our skills also. at this time i am not able to written more than a 500 words in a day but i have confidence is like that if am practices every day i will improve my writing skills . Be patience is more important factor to gain something so we should be more patient and maintain on schedule.

  12. yeah vai we have to focus on our dream that we have to fulfill it that is right when we fall we think may be my life is finish No when i read your post i got back my dream my life again and now i am full of determine to my work

  13. right sir. life is so easy if you make it easy ways. but also it would be complex if you run wrong ways. we can see a pure and lovely smile in colonys peopels.sometimes we are looking a riches family has no happiness. we should find our happiness in our works.

  14. Thank you for such an awesome post.I read it within a very short time and I understood every word.I don’t find any word which is unknown to me.

  15. You are right sir. When we passes our life in a complicated situation that time really we fail to manage easy things.My present time on going like this situation. It’s simple to me to join in workshops for my better success but this tyme my ability not working.It’s the real.Many things I learning from your post sir.Thank you.

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